Sunday, April 28, 2013

Best Day Ever

Ok, that might be an exaggeration, but I'm still smiling 2 days later.
It took till the very end of yet another miserable, heat rashy hot season, but Justin wavered for a single moment in his absolute opposition to some serious hair chopping.

That was all I needed!  I grabbed the scissors and the ponytails and chop, chop, chop!
 

 
The girls were as pumped as I was, giggling and dancing around and flipping their short locks around.

 
It has been so nice having about a thousand percent fewer tangles, less heat, girls doing their hair themselves, no more tears on that front!

 
And to top it off, they look adorable.  Hunter and Braelyn have a more layered look that's shorter in the back giving shape and lift and the sweetest soft curls.  Avery's is more blunt (she was last and Justin's pained looks made me back off half an inch) but still loves it.

 
I assured Justin we should do it now so that there's still plenty of time for it to grow out before we come home...but I'm not sure any of us want it to anymore!
 

Friday, April 26, 2013

Medical Work

Every day it seems someone else comes knocking on the gate seeking help, answers, care.

Some things are fun...helping a mom deliver a newborn baby...giving some Ibuprofen for an aching back.

 
Other things are not so fun...12 year old Suleiman came on Monday for me to change his bandage and give my advice.  Change his bandage I did...and then we went to see the Dutch doctor in the next big town over.  Sadly, the most likely diagnosis is a years old lymphoma, too far advanced and spread to treat.

 
Little Suhaila became severely malnourished when her mom became pregnant again and didn't know it, her breastmilk disappearing before Suhaila really took to food.  She is thankfully home from the hospital and on a special high-calorie food, free from the local clinic!
 
I love helping and loving and praying with these people.  I am so thankful for the chance to be the Light in this land.  But as I face down Suleiman's fate, and that of a friend's elderly mother, I am reminded of why we are really here.  Pray for us that what we give is not just a helping hand.

Traditional Birth Attendant Training








Friday, April 12, 2013

Shannon's First Dive!!!

 
I (Justin) wanted to be the one to post about Shannon getting her diving license since she did such an amazing job and I am so proud of her for doing it. First, it should be noted that I have been trying to get her to do this for the past 12 years of marriage. Lots of factors including but not limited to having three children, lots of work, moving half way around the world and not enjoying sticking her face in the water contributed to the delay but at last...she is certified!
 
 
There is a hotel here with an incredibly nice and generous owners that not only invited Shannon to get her license for free but also hosted a tea party for the three little ones so that I could join Shannon on her final dive to get certified. It was awesome to be able to share the beauty of the underwater world with her!
 

Her final dive happened to be a Sunday and since the boat was leaving pretty early in the morning we decided to have church at 20 meters! We brought along our waterproof Bible and had some Scuba Church.
 

 
Needless to say that Shannon did AWESOME on all of her skills and tests. She is a natural underwater and I can't wait to do more dives with her! Here are some pictures from our dive together...

 
Glass minnows
 

 
Porcupine Puffer
 
 
Scorpion Fish
 
 
Juvenile Angle Fish
 

 
And this weird looking fellow!
 

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

TBA's

Traditional Birth Attendants.  Trained by their moms or someone else in the village.  Very necessary in a place that still has over 45% of mothers give birth at home  (and who really can do statistics in a place like this?).  Very undertrained considering the conditions under which they practice. 

Last year I met a lady who lives between the US and the big island who is involved in training birth attendants but who needed someone willing to teach on this remote little island.  We were thrilled to find eachother.  I can teach, but she can put a conference together.

So this week, I am teaching one day in each of our 4 districts.  It's not much.  Just a few hours with a bunch of women.  Yesterday morning, I was terrified.  Overwhelmed.  What if the coordinator was disappointed?  (I had to write my own training).  What if the ladies' were offended that I was showing up trying to tell them what to do?  What if ?  What if ?

But God.  But God ordained our meeting last year.  He put a passion in my heart for everything baby related.  He planned it all and brought it together and He certainly isn't going to be foiled by little old me. 
 (My welcome sign)
Yesterday, about 30 women came. They were mostly young and dressed nicely. They had books recording all the births they had attended. They were polite and appreciative and seemed happy to listen, but seemed well educated already on most things. There were some golden moments however. After talking about gently massaging a new mom's uterus one woman insisted you needed to do it hard to get the coconut out. Um, well, no. So we hopefully did some good.
(the amazing translator, me and a knitted uterus)
 Today was totally different! There were 35 ladies, mostly older. Most had no idea how many hundreds of babies they had delivered. They wore village clothes and preferred to sit on the floor. They talked a LOT, interrupted a lot, but were SO excited to learn! At one point a lady spoke out while I was talking and I worriedly turned to the translator. Apparently she has said an equivalent of "Preach it sister!" I was happy they were happy. They had a lot more questions and seemed hungry to learn. It was so cool.
I have 2 days to go and I'm tired but happy.  It's amazing to be living here.  It's more amazing to be working here.  To teach someone something that might save a life.  To hold a new baby and pray over it that God would save this child for Himself.  For His Kingdom.  Something I've gotten to do yesterday and today.  I visited each hospital after the trainings.  Yesterday I "helped" with possibly the most or second most traumatic birth I've seen.  Today I held a different baby severely brain damaged by his traumatic birth yesterday.  But to hold these tiny lives, to feel their new lungs heaving in my hands, to know how much He loves them and wants them for His own, and I rejoice that we have come.

Meanwhile...Super Dad is rocking the home life.  2 meals a day, happy children, homeschool complete, am I a lucky woman or what???   Continue to pray for us all.  Justin with the girls, me with the ladies, the ladies with the babies.  Thank you!